Paul Allabaugh - the man who built rainbow bridges

Paul Allabaugh

Age 72 · Passed March 30, 2026

A native of Plymouth, PA. A lifelong welder.

A craftsman who built bridges between grief and memory.

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Hear Paul's Voice

“I like to make them for the people.
For their pets.”

This is Paul's actual voice. Recorded during a phone call with Jason on March 8, 2026. Twenty-two days before he was gone. He's talking about his bridges. About why he makes them. About the people and the pets.

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The Full Interview · 7.5 Minutes

Jason and Amber with Paul in his home. March 8, 2026. Twenty-two days before. Paul talks about his Chihuahuas, his designs, the vet who asked for a bigger bridge, the hurricanes his bridges survived, and “that was God's doing.”

Short clips from the interview (5 additional)

“It's a pastime, keep me busy.”

“It's a nice memorial for their lost pet.”

“Sounds good. Okay, bye-bye.”

The last words Jason heard from Paul.

It started with three Chihuahuas.

Mickey, Jeffy, and Chico. Paul and Pat Allabaugh's dogs. When they passed, Paul saw a rainbow bridge on Facebook. The kind people put in their yard where a pet is buried, so the family can stand at the edge and remember.

Paul was a welder. He'd spent his whole career at Lyn-Weld in Pennsylvania before moving to New Smyrna Beach. Building things was what he did. So he built one. Then he built another. Then he couldn't stop.

He made them in different sizes. Different styles. He filled his garage. Then his workspace. Then every room he had. Dozens of bridges, each one handcrafted by a man who found peace in the making.

What he couldn't find was the selling.

Paul had social anxiety. His wife Pat tried to help. She suggested Facebook Marketplace, the flea market, social media. But Paul couldn't do any of it. He'd sit in a room full of bridges that nobody knew existed, and the weight of it was growing.

Jason and Amber had been trying to help. They'd met Pat when she needed a wheelchair for a cruise. Amber's mother-in-law had just passed, and they gave Pat the wheelchair. Pat brought rainbow bridges as a thank you. Jason and Amber took a few home. They tried placing some at a secondhand store in Edgewater. One sold. Twenty dollars. The store was closing.

Jason called Paul on March 8. They talked for an hour. Paul was working on pricing. Jason was building a technology company that helps people who can't sell their own work. He told Pat he would build Paul a website for free.

“Sounds good,” Paul said. “Okay, bye-bye.”

He was supposed to send the pricing. He never did.

The Messages

The actual conversation between Pat Allabaugh and Amber Laird. October 2025 through March 2026.

Pat's first message to Amber, October 31, 2025. Asking about Paul's rainbow bridges at Karli's store.
Amber responds. She hasn't talked to Karli in a while. She'll reach out.
Pat shares more about Paul. The bridges. The squirrel feeders.
Pat explains Paul's situation. He has social anxiety.
Pat: 'He seems lost. He definitely needs help.' March 7, 2026. Twenty-four days before.
The conversation continues. Amber and Jason are trying to help.
Pat and Amber discuss Paul's pricing. Jason offers to build the website for free.
Tuesday, March 31, 8:52 AM. 'Paul shot himself yesterday. He's passed on. Thank you for all you tried to do.'
Amber: 'I'm absolutely speechless. How can we help you?'
Pat: 'I have a lot of rainbow bridges to sell. I think selling the bridges and dealing with people sent him over the edge.'
Pat: 'Paul didn't really have any friends. He had social anxiety disorder. Now I have all these bridges.'
April 4, 2026. Pat: 'Thank you so much for your kind words and thoughts.' Amber walking over to the vet to photograph Paul's biggest bridge.
Pat giving Amber directions to Paul's biggest bridge at Glencoe Veterinary Hospital. 'Paul said it was outside. It's a huge one. It's easy, Doreen Glencoe, almost to Pioneer Trail. I think it's out in back.'

These messages are real. Published with permission.

Still Standing

Paul's Biggest Bridge

Paul's largest handcrafted rainbow bridge still stands at Glencoe Veterinary Hospital in New Smyrna Beach. Two years of Florida storms. Still there. Jason and Amber are photographing it now.

From Paul's interview: “I showed one to the vet... she said could you make a big one. So I made the biggest one back there.”

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135

Americans die by suicide every single day.

80%

are men

2x

risk for men 65-74

4x

risk for tradesmen

1 in 4

seniors are isolated

Paul was 72. A welder. A tradesman. Isolated. He hit every statistic. Nobody caught it in time.

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If Paul had called, he might still be here. If you're reading this and you're in that dark place: there is a bridge. There is hope. Please call.

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Tuesday, March 31, 2026 · Moments after the text

The Moment Amber Told Me

Jason recorded his immediate reaction the moment Amber told him Paul was gone. Raw. Unedited. The weight of the news hitting in real time. This is the moment Rainbow Bridge of Hope began.

Jason & Amber · The Garage · April 4, 2026

How We Got Here

Jason and Amber sat down in their garage and recorded the whole story. The wheelchair. The bridges Pat brought as thanks. The pricing call that never came. The text on a Tuesday morning. Jason's grandfather in Wyoming in the 1950s. The promise Jason made to his mother. Sterling and Rogan. Sixteen minutes.

The recording begins as an interview. It becomes a testimony. At minute fifteen, something else happens.

Tuesday, March 31, 2026 · 8:52 AM

“Paul shot himself yesterday. He's passed on. Thank you for all you tried to do.”

Pat Allabaugh to Amber Laird

“I have a lot of rainbow bridges to sell. I thought he was really getting a lot of positive feedback on them. I had no idea he was having such dark thoughts. I'm in shock and traumatized.”

“Paul didn't really have any friends. He had social anxiety disorder. I think selling the bridges and dealing with people sent him over the edge. Now I have all these bridges.”

Now we sell every one of them.

Obituary

Paul Allabaugh, 72, a native of Plymouth, PA, unexpectedly passed away on March 30, 2026, in New Smyrna Beach, FL. A lifelong welder by trade, Paul was known for his skill in building. He was employed at Lyn-Weld for many years before relocating to Florida, where he continued to weld and enjoyed teaching the trade to others. Most recently, he took great pride in crafting “Rainbow Bridges” for those who had lost beloved pets.

He is survived by his wife Patricia, his sons Jason and Justin, and his grandsons Benjamin and Bradley.

Written by Paul's son. Published on Legacy.com.

In Their Words

“Paul, I hope you are at peace now. I wish I could tell you how much you were appreciated in our life together. Thank you for every little thing you did and for all of the big things. I will miss you for the rest of my life.”

Patricia Aldrich-Allabaugh

Paul's wife

“Uncle Paul, you will be missed so very much. My heart aches for you, our family, and especially your children and grandchildren. May God rest your soul. I love you!”

Melissa Hobbs

Paul's niece

Paul's Bridges

Dozens of Paul's handcrafted rainbow bridges from above, each unique with paw prints
Paul's bridges lined up showing the arched rainbow design
Rainbow bridges along Paul's workshop shelf with squirrel feeders
Paul's workshop overflowing with bridges and squirrel feeders

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Three ways to honor this

Every bridge finds a home. Every coalition member is part of the story.

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If Paul had called, he might still be here.

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”

Psalm 34:18

For the makers

When the last bridge sells, the mission doesn't end.

Paul made every bridge by hand. When the last of his finds a home, the inventory is gone — but the grieving pet owners don't stop arriving. The families don't stop needing something to hold.

We're looking for the next maker. A woodworker. A painter. A welder. A potter. A photographer. An illustrator. A sculptor. An artist of any medium who can build something a family keeps on their mantle for twenty years. You don't have to be Paul. Nobody can be. You can be the next chapter — under your own name, your own style, your own hands.

Photographers, illustrators, metalworkers, glass artists, weavers — the medium doesn't matter. The grief doesn't pick a form. Whatever you make, if it can carry someone's love for the animal they lost, this door is yours.

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